I’m thinking about adding some links on my sidebar. I’ve wrestled with the question of “should I only link blogs of people who are doing it right?” And what I’ve come up with is no.
I don’t think I’m in a great position to say who is doing it right and who isn’t. I’m still figuring it out for myself. I’m still wrestling with the inner bastard who did this to his wife, not to mention riding the emotional and mental rollercoaster I’ve been on.
In addition, I think there is value in seeing how other cheaters are thinking and recovering. I don’t condone cheating, but it happens for a variety of reasons. Whether you’re a fellow cheater or the betrayed spouse, seeing how others are doing can give you perspective.
My thinking may change on this at a later date, but for now I’m going to link to any blog I find interesting. This blog is about my understanding what I did, not condoning or endorsing it, so do not take a link as an endorsement for everything said or done on a blog.