One of the quirks of the WordPress mobile app is there’s no way to effectively moderate commenters. So when I banned Nephila last week, it had to wait until I got to a laptop to actually ban her. In the meantime, she’s been commenting and I’ve been un-approving her comments.
The reason I banned her is because she is prejudiced against cheaters. It doesn’t matter what words they say, she hears what she wants to hear – namely that they are insincere, self-centered, lying scumbags. No matter what they say they feel, she is the expert and she is here to tell me and them what they are really feeling and what they should be feeling. So when she posted the following just now about the Come Back to me Erin guy, who I suspect has committed suicide, I decided it was time to not only accomplish the ban but call her out.
I always felt he was too passive. He kept giving her space. In my view space just confirms all our suspicions. Space says you don’t give a damn. Space says come back when you’re over it.
I wish every BS could get everything they need, get it yesterday, and get it without the cheater moaning about it or resenting it. I don’t doubt that conscience-pain hurts like hell. And if any of the pain is for losing the affair partner well, you know what that says about someone.
Sanctimonious much? The poor guy was desperately trying to make it work and was wracked with overwhelming, unending guilt. But you know, he was just giving his poor wife too much space because he just didn’t give a damn about her.
Or take this gem about her readers whom she disdains so much that she had to close her blog (good riddance, I say).
Infidelity is everywhere and there is an infinite number of cheats looking for absolution or justification, whores bemoaning their lot or rubbing it in faithful wives faces, and betrayed spouses seeking …a time machine.
But ultimately it was the constant carping, the constant deliberate misunderstanding and accusations not only on my blog but on other blogs where I’ve seen her comment. Life is too short and this road is too hard to listen to sanctimonious, bitter people like her. I hope she wakes up before she hurts any more people, but given her track record I doubt that. All I can do is ban her on my blog.