Monthly Archives: August 2014

Forgiveness – A Betrayer’s View

Posted on August 20, 2014 by Anonyman

I’ve been talking a lot in the comments lately about forgiveness and repentance. These are two very important topics in affair recovery, for obvious reasons. I’ve decided to make them each a separate post because the first part, Forgiveness, was … Continue reading →

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Realizing Your Wife is Awesome

Posted on August 19, 2014 by Anonyman

This is the third, and possibly final, post in the Realizing series. If you haven’t already, please go read Realizing You’re Attractive and Realizing You’re a Selfish Bastard. Since revelation of the affair and through the recovery process, I’ve learned … Continue reading →

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Porn and the Affair

Posted on August 18, 2014 by Anonyman

I’m having a hard time writing today. I just can’t seem to focus enough to sit down and write a post from start to finish as I usually do. So instead I’m posting my answer to a question on the … Continue reading →

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To Share or Not to Share

Posted on August 16, 2014 by Anonyman

There’s a lot of details from the affair that I still carry around with me. A lot of them my wife knows, and a few of those are known to others. I can only think of one detail which was … Continue reading →

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Light Posting

Posted on August 14, 2014 by Anonyman

Sorry for the light posting today. I’ve been pretty busy with work and mostly have only had time to respond to comments. I did, however, add a page with the answer to the most common question I get. Not that … Continue reading →

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Cruelty to the Other Woman

Posted on August 14, 2014 by Anonyman

At a certain point in my recovery, I realized that if I truly had any feelings for Scarlet or any regard for her well being, I had to let her go. No matter how much I was tempted to find … Continue reading →

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Spot On

Posted on August 13, 2014 by Anonyman

Yeah, I know it’s Buzzfeed, which I generally despise on principle, but this listicle is spot on: Twenty-two surprising facts about depression. Hopefully none of them sound familiar to you.

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Is This What Crazy Feels Like?

Posted on August 13, 2014 by Anonyman

I wrote this earlier, but didn’t post it. After thinking about I decided, crazy or not, I’m going to post it. You know it’s a bad day when you start looking at the various cords and cables at you desk … Continue reading →

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And This is Why She’s Banned

Posted on August 12, 2014 by Anonyman

One of the quirks of the WordPress mobile app is there’s no way to effectively moderate commenters. So when I banned Nephila last week, it had to wait until I got to a laptop to actually ban her. In the … Continue reading →

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Where Did All These People Come From?!?

Posted on August 12, 2014 by Anonyman

I’m about to hit 400 page hits today. To put that in perspective, that’s almost as much as the total number of hits I ever got for my first webpage that I built in 1997. So if you’re reading this … Continue reading →

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