Author Archives: Anonyman

About Anonyman

Recovering adulterer and husband of an awesome wife who has given me a second chance. Sinner and Christian, saved by grace alone. I cuss a lot

Three and a half months: How we’re doing

Three and half months ago we celebrated my birthday and two days after that is when I found the texts between Rita and Tim. It feels like a lifetime ago and in other ways it feels like it was yesterday. … Continue reading

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Recovery and Reminiscence

It’s been a while since I’ve had a chance to write. I am feeling a bit depressed, but not half as bad as I would be without the meds. It’s weird how even when I’m not thinking about Rita’s affair, … Continue reading

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Recap and Update

I’m going to start this post with a little word of advice: if you want visitors and followers to find your blog, don’t forget to tag it with meaningful phrases. Almost all of my original followers from four years ago … Continue reading

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Beware the Ides of March

I’m coming up on the fifth anniversary (if that’s even the right term for something so odious) of my affair. Five years is somehow more significant than 4 or 6 years, just like our fifteenth wedding anniversary just passed was … Continue reading

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Depression Sucks

I’m trying a new medication because the SSRI I was on had some… side-effects that I wasn’t too fond of. It’s not going so well. I’m fully off the SSRI and have been on the new stuff for a month … Continue reading

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What if?

I’ve been pretty busy lately and haven’t even taken the time to read through my blog feed, but today I’m sitting idle waiting for other things to finish. I particularly like something Bee wrote the other day, a post titled┬áLove … Continue reading

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The Timeline

Based on some of the comments I’m getting, I have no been sufficiently clear on what happened when, especially as it pertains to the writing of this blog. The easiest way for me to clarify this is to post the … Continue reading

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