Author Archives: Anonyman

About Anonyman

Recovering adulterer and husband of an awesome wife who has given me a second chance. Sinner and Christian, saved by grace alone. I cuss a lot

Recap and Update

I’m going to start this post with a little word of advice: if you want visitors and followers to find your blog, don’t forget to tag it with meaningful phrases. Almost all of my original followers from four years ago … Continue reading

Posted in Her Affair, Relationship | Tagged , , , , , | 5 Comments

Beware the Ides of March

I’m coming up on the fifth anniversary (if that’s even the right term for something so odious) of my affair. Five years is somehow more significant than 4 or 6 years, just like our fifteenth wedding anniversary just passed was … Continue reading

Posted in Relationship, Her Affair | Tagged , , , | 16 Comments

Depression Sucks

I’m trying a new medication because the SSRI I was on had some… side-effects that I wasn’t too fond of. It’s not going so well. I’m fully off the SSRI and have been on the new stuff for a month … Continue reading

Posted in Teh Crazy | Tagged , , , | 2 Comments

What if?

I’ve been pretty busy lately and haven’t even taken the time to read through my blog feed, but today I’m sitting idle waiting for other things to finish. I particularly like something Bee wrote the other day, a post titled┬áLove … Continue reading

Posted in The affair | Tagged , , , , | 10 Comments

The Timeline

Based on some of the comments I’m getting, I have no been sufficiently clear on what happened when, especially as it pertains to the writing of this blog. The easiest way for me to clarify this is to post the … Continue reading

Posted in The affair, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | 11 Comments

The Aftermath

This is the final part of a three part series I wrote in March. It will make much more sense if you go back and read Friday’s and Saturday’s posts. -Anonyman When I finally told my wife the awful truth … Continue reading

Posted in The affair | Tagged | 11 Comments


This is the second of three parts of the post I published earlier. Like the first, I drafted this in March, but am just now getting around to publishing it (with some minor edits). – Anonyman The second worst thing … Continue reading

Posted in The affair | Tagged , , | 7 Comments