Category Archives: Relationship

Three and a half months: How we’re doing

Three and half months ago we celebrated my birthday and two days after that is when I found the texts between Rita and Tim. It feels like a lifetime ago and in other ways it feels like it was yesterday. … Continue reading

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Recovery and Reminiscence

It’s been a while since I’ve had a chance to write. I am feeling a bit depressed, but not half as bad as I would be without the meds. It’s weird how even when I’m not thinking about Rita’s affair, … Continue reading

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Recap and Update

I’m going to start this post with a little word of advice: if you want visitors and followers to find your blog, don’t forget to tag it with meaningful phrases. Almost all of my original followers from four years ago … Continue reading

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Beware the Ides of March

I’m coming up on the fifth anniversary (if that’s even the right term for something so odious) of my affair. Five years is somehow more significant than 4 or 6 years, just like our fifteenth wedding anniversary just passed was … Continue reading

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It’s Not You, It’s Sin

I was talking to a good friend the other day about my struggles with pornography. Don’t worry, I haven’t fallen off the wagon, but I never completely forget that I’m on the wagon, either. Sometimes you have to grab onto … Continue reading

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Facebook Wisdom

Am I the only one who is tired of getting on Facebook, and – wait, wait, you didn’t let me finish! I’m tired of getting on Facebook AND seeing a bunch of link-bait, wishy-washy, pop-culture baloney¬†pretending to be deep, wise … Continue reading

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Anonyman the Hero

I found an interesting blog post yesterday on Insist on Honesty. It was written by a wife whose husband had a deep emotional affair after having a long string of inappropriate friendships (could be wrong on the particulars here – … Continue reading

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